Accepting mistakes
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Staying focused on what matters
Avoiding self comparison
Turning failure into resiliency
Failure is a given in life; expecting to sail through without a hiccup is unrealistic and sets you up to fall harder when failure does happen. Avoiding failure also prevents you from focusing on gaining the resiliency needed to cope with it, a vital element of bouncing back. Moreover, it is unfortunate that in societies obsessed with success and achievement, failure can be made to feel like the worst thing that could ever happen to a person. The reality is that failure is commonplace but so is overcoming it and pushing through to more successful endeavors in the future. Even where a failure cannot be salvaged, there is always something to be learned from it. In this article, you'll learn a little about how to overcome failure through staying focused on what matters to you. When you don't let the mishaps of life keep you down too long, then nobody else will be able to keep you down too long either.
Expect mistakes. Life's hard knocks are as common as life's success highs. To expect the process of living to always be smooth sailing is to invite a lack of realism into your life. It happens to the best of us. Failure helps to create balance in your life and presents an opportunity for personal growth. Accepting the inevitability that things won't always go your way is an important part of avoiding becoming bitter and twisted, or of preventing
Failure is a given in life; expecting to sail through without a hiccup is unrealistic and sets you up to fall harder when failure does happen. Avoiding failure also prevents you from focusing on gaining the resiliency needed to cope with it, a vital element of bouncing back. Moreover, it is unfortunate that in societies obsessed with success and achievement, failure can be made to feel like the worst thing that could ever happen to a person. The reality is that failure is commonplace but so is overcoming it and pushing through to more successful endeavors in the future. Even where a failure cannot be salvaged, there is always something to be learned from it. In this article, you'll learn a little about how to overcome failure through staying focused on what matters to you. When you don't let the mishaps of life keep you down too long, then nobody else will be able to keep you down too long either.
Expect mistakes. Life's hard knocks are as common as life's success highs. To expect the process of living to always be smooth sailing is to invite a lack of realism into your life. It happens to the best of us. Failure helps to create balance in your life and presents an opportunity for personal growth. Accepting the inevitability that things won't always go your way is an important part of avoiding becoming bitter and twisted, or of preventing
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yourself from simply resting on your laurels and never
pushing further to realize your full potential.
Learn to love finding out that you're wrong about something. That's not failure; it's enlightenment and the path to finding the right way.
How to control perfectionism :Perfectionism causes us to fear failure and to feel we're personally a failure when we're faced with it. Seeking to always be perfect sows our own seeds of disappointment. Trying and failing is a much better teacher of what it means to be human than never trying and never succeeding.
Learn to love finding out that you're wrong about something. That's not failure; it's enlightenment and the path to finding the right way.
How to control perfectionism :Perfectionism causes us to fear failure and to feel we're personally a failure when we're faced with it. Seeking to always be perfect sows our own seeds of disappointment. Trying and failing is a much better teacher of what it means to be human than never trying and never succeeding.
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